Van City Jacks (VCJ) is a private club for men who enjoy masturbating with
other men in a social, respectful, and safe environment. Our mission is to
create an inclusive space where sides, bators, gooners, bros, and dudes
can explore shared sexuality through mutual consent and trust. All
members and guests must read, understand, and agree to this Code of
Conduct before participating in any VCJ event or group communication.
VCJ is open to cis and trans men, and anyone with a penis, inclusive of all sexual orientations.
Members must be 18 years of age or older. ID will be checked at the door.
Consent is required for all forms of physical or sexual contact. Consent must be freely given, clearly received, and can be withdrawn at any time. Both verbal and non-verbal cues matter. If someone pulls away, goes quiet, or seems uncomfortable, stop immediately and check in.
Good consent sounds like:
Respect every “no” without question or pressure. Any violation of consent will result inimmediate removal from the event.
✅Permitted activities include self-masturbation, watching, showing off, mutual masturbation,
body contact, frottage, penis on penis masturbation and kissing.
⛔Prohibited activities include oral or anal contact of any kind, penetration or insertion (nothing
goes inside anything), use of toys, or masturbation sleeves, or any touching without
clear, enthusiastic consent.
VCJ is a space for participation and connection. Voyeurism is welcome as a form of participation
— watching respectfully is a valid way to be part of the event. Members are expected to attend
with the spirit of engagement, openness, and respect for others’ boundaries. If you arrive and
decide that the event is not for you, you are welcome to leave at any time.
Arrive showered, clean, and fresh, with brushed teeth and trimmed nails. Avoid strong scents,
colognes, or noticeable body odor. Hygiene helps everyone feel comfortable, confident, and
respected.
Stay home if you are feeling unwell or have symptoms of any communicable infection (including colds, flu, or skin infections).
Members assume responsibility for their own sexual health and risk awareness. By attending
VCJ events, members acknowledge that there is some inherent risk of exposure to common STIs, and are responsible for getting testing regularly.
VCJ encourages members to get tested for STIs regularly and to speak with their health care
provider about vaccinations and other available STI prevention measures, like Prep and Doxypep.
Men living with HIV who are on treatment and maintaining an undetectable viral load (U=U) are fully welcome.
Learn more about sexual health or access testing through the HIM Clinic Vancouver.
VCJ events are strictly alcohol and drug-free. Members must not arrive intoxicated or use substances during events. Anyone appearing intoxicated will not be admitted or may be asked to leave.
No phones, photos, or videos are permitted inside event spaces. Respect every member’s privacy — never share anyone’s name, story, or participation outside the club.
The rule is simple: what happens here stays here.
All members deserve dignity and respect regardless of body type, race, age, ability, gender identity, or experience level. Discrimination, harassment, or disrespectful behavior of any kind will not be tolerated.
VCJ enforces a zero-tolerance policy for consent violations. Anyone violating consent will be immediately removed from the event. VCJ organizers reserve the right to deny entry or revoke membership for any behavior inconsistent with this Code of Conduct.
By attending a Van City Jacks event or participating in any VCJ space, you agree to
uphold this Code of Conduct and help maintain an environment built on respect,
consent, and community.
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